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May 7, 2026 46 min

Stop Believing The Story;

from Is Your Way In Your Way? Hosted by Cassandra Crawley Mayo

Send us Fan Mail We talk with life and relationship coach Christina Ketchen about the inner stories that fuel self-doubt and keep us stuck, then break down how to challenge those thoughts without shaming ourselves. We share practical tools for emotional regulation, self-love, and healthier relationships so you can move with more clarity and less fear. • the “is that true?” question as a pattern interrupter for limiting beliefs • how coaching and therapy serve different goals, and why fit matters • grief and adversity as sources of lived wisdom and hope • overthinking, feeling too much, and the language that reinforces the story • HeartMath basics, heart-focused breathing, and building a calmer baseline • journaling as a way to hear your thoughts and process emotion • self-love as supportive inner self-talk, not surface-level self-care • intention before hard conversations to reduce self-doubt • unhealthy love as eggshells, healthy love as seen, heard, safe • forgiveness, compassion, and the harder work of self-forgiveness • being present enough to answer “How are you?” with something real ChristinaKetchen.com/masterclass Get ready to break free from obstacles and live life on your terms! Are you readdy to create and design your best life? If so, click the link here. To make sure you never miss an episode, make sure you subscribe to the podcast and head on over to www.cassandracrawley.com and join our mailing list. Support the show Are you ready to create and design your best life on your terms? If so, click here and schedule a complimentary discovery call with Cassandra. https://www.cassandracrawley.com/discovery-call If this podcast helped you rethink whether you are living your best life on your terms, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help more women find it. To get a copy of my debut book, "Is Your Way in Your Way", visit https://www.cassandracrawley.com/book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cassandracrawleymayo Website: https://www.cassandracrawley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassandra_crawleymayo/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cassandracrawley/ YouTube: https://cassandracrawleymayo x: https://www.tiktok.com/ Podcast: Wickedly Smart Women Stop Shrinking and Rise with Cassandra Crawley Mayo – Ep.391 — Wickedly Smart Women ® : ...

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Send us Fan Mail We talk with life and relationship coach Christina Ketchen about the inner stories that fuel self-doubt and keep us stuck, then break down how to challenge those thoughts without shaming ourselves. We share practical tools for emotional regulation, self-love, and healthier relationships so you can move with more clarity and less fear. • the “is that true?” question as a pattern interrupter for limiting beliefs • how coaching and therapy serve different goals, and why fi...

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Stop Believing The Story;

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  1. 0:50 Welcome And Episode Theme;
  2. 3:06 Christina’s Backstory And The Not Enough Pattern;
  3. 6:16 Finding Purpose By Hiring A Coach;
  4. 8:01 Therapy Versus Coaching And Fit;
  5. 8:53 Adversity, Grief, And Finding The Gem;
  6. 10:59 The “Is That True?” Tool;
  7. 14:42 Overthinking And Emotional Exhaustion;
  8. 16:47 HeartMath And Heart-Focused Breathing;
  9. 20:53 Habits That Change Your Life;
  10. 23:51 Self-Love As Inner Self-Talk;
  11. 26:35 Intention, Triggers, And Circling Back;
  12. 28:18 Unhealthy Love Versus Safe Love;
  13. 35:46 Forgiveness, Compassion, And Self-Forgiveness;
  14. 40:52 A Better Answer To “How Are You?”;
  15. 42:42 Masterclass, What’s Next, And Closing

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