Stop Blaming and Start Becoming: The Real Work of Masculinity

In this powerful episode of Say It Anyway, James Ferrigno sits down with Dave from Limitless Brave — a men’s coach who’s spent over 15 years helping men reclaim their confidence, face their fears, and live from authentic masculine power.From his surprising beginnings as a professional wingman in Washington D.C. to building global men’s coaching companies, Dave’s journey reveals the real meaning of courage and self-awareness. He shares how conquering his paralyzing fear of flying led him to skydiving around the world — and how that same process of facing fear applies to emotional wounds, trauma, and modern masculinity.Together, James and Dave explore how men can break free from the “nice guy” trap, set healthy boundaries, and transform the stories that keep them small. They discuss the cultural collapse of strong male role models, the epidemic of emotional repression, and why radical self-responsibility is the key to healing, purpose, and freedom.This conversation will challenge what you think it means to be strong — and invite you to rediscover your own power from the inside out.🧭 Key TopicsOvercoming fear and trauma through awarenessThe story behind Limitless Brave and Dave’s 15+ years coaching menConquering the fear of flying through skydivingThe link between fear, emotional repression, and personal growthBreaking free from childhood programming and internal storiesHow “nice guy syndrome” weakens men and destroys relationshipsBoundaries, emotional regulation, and healthy masculine strengthHealing from drama addiction and the need for external validationWhy men must take radical self-responsibilityThe views, opinions, and statements expressed by guests on Say It Anyway are their own and do not necessarily represent or reflect the views, opinions, or positions of the host, James Ferrigno, or the producers of this podcast. Say It Anyway does not endorse or assume responsibility for any statements made by guests. The content of this program is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.