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Feb 8, 2026 10 min

Stop Chasing People Who Aren’t Choosing You

from Life in Focus Hosted by Suttida

Ever had someone come in hot, chase you hard… then suddenly disappear like they were never real? In this week’s episode, I talk about why people withdraw right when things start getting real, and why your job isn’t to decode them… it’s to stop abandoning yourself trying to earn consistency. Inside this episode, we cover: Why withdrawal isn’t a mixed signal, it’s a loud “I can’t” How the “decoder addiction” keeps you stuck obsessing over someone who already left What real closure looks like when they refuse to give you oneIf someone walks away, let them. Your nervous system deserves peace, not puzzles.🎧 Listen now and remind yourself: self-respect is a decision, not a mood. Stay connected: ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Download the Healing & Growth Workbook

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