Stop Chasing the Orgasm (And Start Here Instead)

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion? In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment. In this episode, we explore: The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion) Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfaction Why orgasm doesn't have to be the goal How compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safety Letting go of judgment to reclaim pleasure This is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey. If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla: Join my Newsletter Community Support this podcast and leave me a tip! Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course Book your Liberation Wisdom session Book 45 minute consultation Email me at [email protected] with any questions