Stop Chasing the Orgasm (And Start Here Instead)

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.In this episode, we explore:The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion)Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfactionWhy orgasm doesn't have to be the goalHow compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safetyLetting go of judgment to reclaim pleasureThis is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionBook 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions