Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis Barber

#290: Why do successful, confident women seem to get hate for taking up space?Today I’m bringing back content creator, podcast host of Too Smart for This, and founder of Too Collective, Alexis Barber, to chat about the burnout that comes with juggling multiple careers, what it takes to build a luxury brand, and how to deal with spaces that still question the value of female success.From dealing with hate comments to redefining what it means to be “relatable,” we talk about feeling the pressure to stay small while reaching for big dreams. Whether you’ve been told you’re too smart, or too ambitious, you’re just getting started.We Also Talk About…How Alexis built a luxury brand while navigating the pressures of maintaining a full-time corporate careerThe realities of burnout when you’re balancing multiple careers and passionsThe impact of hate comments and the challenges of staying confident as a woman in businessRedefining what “relatable” really means in a world that expects women to shrinkWhy being unapologetically ambitious is necessary—and how to own itResources:Follow Alexis on Instagram @alexisbarberFollow Too Collective on Instagram @toocollectiveListen to Alexis' podcast Too Smart for ThisCheck out Too Smart for This: A Journal to Build Self-Trust and Stop Settling for Less Than You Deserve by Alexis BarberSubscribe to Too Collective on SubstackCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.The RealReal | The RealReal is the world's largest and most trusted resource for authenticated luxery resale. Get $25 off your first purchase when you got to therealreal.com/lucky -- URL must be all lowercase!Nuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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#290: Why do successful, confident women seem to get hate for taking up space? Today I’m bringing back content creator, podcast host of Too Smart for This, and founder of Too Collective, Alexis Barber, to chat about the burnout that comes with juggling multiple careers, what it takes to build a luxury brand, and how to deal with spaces that still question the value of female success. From dealing with hate comments to redefining what it means to be “relatable,” we talk about feeling the pressure to stay small while reaching for big dreams. Whether you’ve been told you’re too smart, or too ambitious, you’re just getting started. We Also Talk About…How Alexis built a luxury brand while navigating the pressures of maintaining a full-time corporate careerThe realities of burnout when you’re balancing multiple careers and passionsThe impact of hate comments and the challenges of staying confident as a woman in businessRedefining what “relatable” really means in a world that expects women to shrinkWhy being unapologetically ambitious is necessary—and how to own itResources:Follow Alexis on Instagram @alexisbarberFollow Too Collective on Instagram @toocollectiveListen to Alexis' podcast Too Smart for ThisCheck out Too Smart for This: A Journal to Build Self-Trust and Stop Settling for Less Than You Deserve by Alexis BarberSubscribe to Too Collective on SubstackCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.The RealReal | The RealReal is the world's largest and most trusted resource for authenticated luxery resale. Get $25 off your first purchase when you got to therealreal.com/lucky -- URL must be all lowercase!Nuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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