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EPISODE · Feb 10, 2026 · 21 MIN

Stop Letting People Speak to Your Past | Episode 166

from The Self Talk Experience Podcast · host Darnell & Traci Self

Are the people around you speaking to who you were… or who you’re becoming?In this episode of The Self Talk Experience, Darnell and Traci unpack a powerful mindset shift that can change your relationships—and your future.Many of us struggle with self-sabotage not because we lack ability, but because we stay connected to environments that only recognize our past. When people constantly remind you of who you used to be, it becomes harder to step into who you’re meant to become.This conversation dives into:Why self-talk shapes your trajectoryThe difference between being “nice” and being truly kindThe power of edification (building others up)Why tearing down is easy—but building up requires intentionHow communication can revive relationships that matterWhy you must speak to your own future self—even if no one else doesIf no one around you is speaking life into the person you’re becoming, start doing it yourself.Because the things you say to yourself about yourself eventually determine what you attract for yourself.https://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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