Stop Looking For “The One” - How to Find Love Without Chasing It With Love + Dating Coach, Linda Li

from Made For More · host Luke Page

In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Linda Li for a raw, honest conversation about love, dating, and why so many people keep repeating the same relationship patterns. We explore why the very traits that attract us to someone often become the things that trigger us later, how unrealistic expectations sabotage long-term love, and why choosing a partner is less about finding “the one” and more about becoming the person who can sustain a healthy relationship. Linda shares insights from her experience going on 150 first dates, what dating apps really are (and aren’t), and how desperation, timelines, and romantic fantasies quietly push love away. We also talk about embodiment, boundaries, masculine and feminine energy, and why building a full life first is the fastest way to attract the right partner. This episode is for anyone who: Feels stuck repeating the same dating patterns Is tired of chasing love or settling out of fear Wants a grounded, mature perspective on modern dating Is ready to choose love from wholeness, not lack If you’ve ever thought, “Why does this keep happening to me?” — this conversation will change how you see relationships forever. Make sure you subscribe to my podcast to stay up to date with episodes I release every week. If you loved this episode, I’d be super grateful if you could leave me a review which helps me spread this podcast out to more amazing people just like you :) HERE’S WHERE YOU CAN FOLLOW ME: Instagram: @luke_page YOU CAN FIND LINDA ON: Instagram: @lindalicoaching Website: www.lindalicoaching.com LinkedIn: Linda Li Prefer to watch a video podcast? Watch this episode on Youtube now https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9E-uZYQ-w1E&list=PLN_zhozMnXCy32Df46yM0sDgmBuIrKYR1&index=1&t=3279s Join Rise: My program helping men step into their power, purpose and the life they were made for! This is all about upgrading who you are so you can live with more peace, happiness and get all the things you're wanting. Click here for more info

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In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Linda Li for a raw, honest conversation about love, dating, and why so many people keep repeating the same relationship patterns. We explore why the very traits that attract us to someone often become the things that trigger us later, how unrealistic expectations sabotage long-term love, and why choosing a partner is less about finding “the one” and more about becoming the person who can sustain a healthy relationship. Linda shares insights from her experience going on 150 first dates, what dating apps really are (and aren’t), and how desperation, timelines, and romantic fantasies quietly push love away. We also talk about embodiment, boundaries, masculine and feminine energy, and why building a full life first is the fastest way to attract the right partner. This episode is for anyone who: Feels stuck repeating the same dating patterns Is tired of chasing love or settling out of fear Wants a grounded, mature perspective on modern dating Is ready to choose love from wholeness, not lack If you’ve ever thought, “Why does this keep happening to me?” — this conversation will change how you see relationships forever. Make sure you subscribe to my podcast to stay up to date with episodes I release every week. If you loved this episode, I’d be super grateful if you could leave me a review which helps me spread this podcast out to more amazing people just like you :) HERE’S WHERE YOU CAN FOLLOW ME: Instagram: @luke_pageYOU CAN FIND LINDA ON: Instagram: @lindalicoachingWebsite: www.lindalicoaching.comLinkedIn: Linda LiPrefer to watch a video podcast? Watch this episode on Youtube nowhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9E-uZYQ-w1E&list=PLN_zhozMnXCy32Df46yM0sDgmBuIrKYR1&index=1&t=3279sJoin Rise: My program helping men step into their power, purpose and the life they were made for! This is all about upgrading who you are so you can live with more peace, happiness and get all the things you're wanting.Click here for more info

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