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EPISODE · Dec 30, 2025 · 42 MIN

Stop Matching Your Socks: Reducing Friction and Increasing Motivation with Kristen Berman

from Going The Distance with Go Long: Making Your Life Unapologetically Awesome · host Go Long

In this episode, Jill and Kristen Berman explore the intricacies of behavioral science and its application in coaching and organizational settings. Kristen, a behavioral scientist and co-founder of Irrational Labs, discusses how understanding decision-making and motivation can lead to effective behavior change. They dive deep into the importance of accountability, the role of extrinsic motivation, and the necessity of creating systems that support success. They also touch on the challenges of procrastination, the significance of community, and the impact of multitasking on productivity. Kristen shares insights on designing environments that foster better decision-making and the importance of setting boundaries to manage work stress.More about Jill & Go Long:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign-up for Go Long’s newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more about Go Long⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedInMore about Kristen Berman:WebsiteIrrational LabsLinkedInMentioned in this episode:Nudge by Richard H. Thaler and Cass SunsteinBehavioral Economics BootcampPeloton Strength Training ClassesDuolingoNuulyRent the RunwayFactor MealsWeak Tie TheoryTom Sawyer EffectAngela DuckworthCalm AppJump to:00:00 - Introduction to Behavioral Science and Coaching02:32 - Understanding Decision-Making and Behavior Change06:32 - The Role of Immediate Benefits in Motivation10:26 - Extrinsic vs. Intrinsic Motivation14:02 - Creating Systems for Success18:25 - Overcoming Procrastination and Decision Fatigue23:57 - Simplifying Life Through Defaults24:31 - Shared Resources for Parenting26:41 - Negotiating Time in Relationships27:36 - Investing in Personal Well-being28:24 - Systematic Planning for Family30:26 - Decision-Making Under Stress31:54 - Creating Productive Work Environments33:19 - Building Community for Social Engagement35:33 - The Importance of Quality Friendships37:09 - Rethinking Multitasking and Productivity

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