Stop Putting People on Pedestals

What if the people you admire aren't proof that you're behind...What if they're proof of what's possible?In this episode, I'm sharing one of the biggest mindset shifts I had while attending a business event in Arizona, surrounded by seven and nine-figure business owners, speakers and mentors I'd admired for years.From the outside, it's easy to believe successful people have something we don't—more confidence, more certainty, more discipline, more courage.But here's what I realised...They're just people.They have fears.They doubt themselves.They make mistakes.They have hard days.The difference isn't that they're extraordinary.The difference is they've continued to back themselves despite the fear.In this episode, we explore why putting people on pedestals can quietly erode your confidence, how comparison disconnects you from your own power, and why the qualities you admire in others are often reflections of strengths that already exist within you.In this episode, we'll explore:Why we naturally idolise successful peopleThe hidden cost of putting others on a pedestalHow comparison causes us to outsource our confidenceWhy proximity changes the way we see successThe difference between admiring someone and diminishing yourselfHow to use inspiration as evidence of what's possible instead of proof you're not enoughPractical mindset shifts to help you back yourself and step into your own potentialIf you've ever caught yourself thinking..."She's just got something I don't."This episode is your reminder that she doesn't.She's simply showing you what's possible when someone keeps saying yes to themselves.If this conversation resonated with you, I also recommend listening to my earlier episode:Imposter Syndrome Isn't a Syndrome — It's a MirrorIt pairs perfectly with this episode, exploring why feeling like an imposter isn't evidence that you don't belong—it's often a sign that your identity is catching up to your growth. Together, these two episodes will help you stop seeking permission, trust yourself more deeply, and step into the next version of you with confidence.🎧 You can find "Imposter Syndrome Isn't a Syndrome — It's a Mirror" wherever you're listening to this podcast.If you enjoyed this episode:✨ Share it with someone who needs the reminder that they don't need to become someone else—they simply need to back themselves.⭐ Leave a review so more people can discover the podcast.📲 Connect with me on Instagram for more no-BS mindset, nervous system and self-leadership content.Remember...The people who inspire you aren't evidence that you're behind.They're evidence of what's possible.Let’s connect:IG: @amanda_kate_coachJoin my free community:https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Hj6pUEhn2/?mibextid=wwXIfrMore resources:www.amandakatelifestyle.com.auAbout Amanda KateAmanda is a Master of NLP therapy, hypnotherapist, holistic lifestyle and empowerment  coach and works to inspire women to transform their mind and body for a lifetime of health and happiness. Her mission is to help women kick quick fixes to the curb so they can heal their self image and love the skin they’re in.   After 12 years in the beauty industry (helping women shine from within), Amanda retrained as a personal trainer and coach, with a new focus on guiding women to find health and happiness in their own skin by through nourishing their bodies with movement, nutrition and self acceptance.Today, Amanda works to coach women to breakthrough the road blocks keeping them from achieving and having what they want. With her signature program, Beyond the Body, Amanda's mission is to help women reconnect. To tune in, put  themselves first and nurture themselves to reveal the confident, resilient and empowered woman within. Amanda lives in Perth, Western Australia with her husband Jason and beautiful daughters  Madelyn and McKenzie. When she's not working with amazing women like you, you'll find her at the beach or enjoying a cheeky prosecco with friends.Learn more about Amanda and Beyond the Body here.