Stop Trying to Change Anyone | Wisdom Dialogues at Kehena Beach, HI | June 29, 2026

Send us Fan MailThe moment someone comes at you with blame, jealousy, or anger, your body wants to brace and your mind wants to build a case. We go straight into what happens when you do the opposite: stay open, drop the defense, and let compassion do the work. Laurie T. joins me to share what unfolded in her long-term marriage when her husband “lit out” at her and she simply held space, listened, and refused to fight for her innocence.From there, we tackle one of the stickiest traps on a spiritual path: trying to use your awakening to get specific people to wake up. We talk about projection, approval-seeking, and why measuring progress by someone else’s behavior keeps you out of peace. I unpack empathy versus compassion, why worry is just fear in disguise, and how forgiveness in A Course in Miracles points to one consistent practice: give everyone their innocence back, including yourself.We also get into spiritual bypassing, group identity, and why “encouraging people to do better” can hide a judgment that blocks real connection. If you’re navigating relationship conflict, family estrangement, addiction in the family, or you just want a grounded way to live ACIM teachings, this conversation offers a clear next step you can apply today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs relief, and leave a review with the biggest shift you heard.Support the show🕊️ Go deeper with meBook a 1:1 Session🌸 Give and Support my Ministry:Donate📙 Read, Watch, or ListenSubstack