EPISODE · Jul 23, 2026 · 11 MIN
Stop Waiting for Your Spouse to Go First
from High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm · host Chelsey Holm
Send us Fan MailWho goes first in marriage?The Gospel has already answered that question. Jesus did.In this practical episode, we'll explore why waiting keeps marriages stuck, how Christ's pursuit of us frees us to pursue our spouse without keeping score, and what it looks like to love first—not because our spouse deserves it, but because Christ first loved us. Healthy marriages aren't built on reciprocity; they're built on grace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS Looking for ongoing support? Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here: Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLWAs a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 2x certified Coach (...
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Send us Fan Mail Who goes first in marriage? The Gospel has already answered that question. Jesus did. In this practical episode, we'll explore why waiting keeps marriages stuck, how Christ's pursuit of us frees us to pursue our spouse without keeping score, and what it looks like to love first—not because our spouse deserves it, but because Christ first loved us. Healthy marriages aren't built on reciprocity; they're built on grace. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Ch...
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