Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: Micro-Actions to Build True Confidence with Nikki Langman

Welcome to the She Talks Confidence Podcast, where we dive deep into the real challenges and triumphs that shape women’s confidence at work, in relationships, and in life.In today’s powerful episode, host Tony Dufresne, PhD, sits down with international speaker, author of "How to Be a Badass," and creator of the Unbrickable program—Nikki Langman. Nikki unpacks her journey from corporate perfectionist to unshakeable confidence advocate, sharing candidly about the trap of waiting for perfection, the danger of the word "fine," and how taking messy, imperfect action changes everything.Three Big Takeaways:Ban the Word "Fine": When high-achieving women say they are "fine," it usually masks profound stress and the pressure to meet impossible societal superhero expectations.Embrace Being a Beginner: You will never feel completely ready to step up; embracing awkward, imperfect action is the only way to build real self-trust.Vulnerability as a Catalyst: True connection, psychological safety, and leadership strength require dropping the masks and sharing your authentic story.Connect with Nikki Langman:Website: https://www.nikkilangman.comLinkedIn: Nikki LangmanBook: Find "How to Be a Badass" at https://www.bookshop.orgConnect with the Host:Website: https://www.theconfidencedoc.comEmail: [email protected]:00:00 - Start 02:00 - Struggling with societal expectations06:09 - Personal struggle and recovery journey09:12 - Discussing vulnerability and trust10:22 - Challenges of Vulnerability in Business13:30 - Corporate culture and gender dynamics17:06 - Setting healthy work boundaries23:11 - Time management and work-life balance26:14 - Discussing support from trusted friends30:01 - Building a supportive community31:08 - Contact info and coaching options