Street Farbrengen Episode 58 - Don't Let It Bring You Down...It's Only Castles Burning

After fire  destroys his  home Reuven wonders about  his calm and joy. Shouldn't I feel guilty or some sort of contriteness for some actions that led to a fire burning down my house? Zacharia and Reuven talk fire, Tisha B'av and the manner the Rebbe  directs to approach and look at the ups and downs and surprises of life.