Strength is about Being Seen with Koby Falks
Episode 65 of the The Purple Pawedcast podcast, hosted by Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D., titled "Strength is about Being Seen with Koby Falks" was published on May 9, 2025 and runs 61 minutes.
May 9, 2025 ·61m · The Purple Pawedcast
Summary
In this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes. Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry. Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.REFERENCES:Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalksFollow Koby on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChRpGMrLi-pnJFZCdP3e1TgFollow Koby on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kobyfalksofficialFollow Koby on Facebook: https://facebook.com/kobyfalksdaddyFollow Koby on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kobyfalksFollow Koby on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@kobyfalks(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:32) - Introducing Koby Falks (02:43) - The pandemic brings new opportunities (07:07) - Instead of external, look at the internal (12:13) - Dismissing what we don't understand (18:13) - Masculinity isn't bottling up, it's showing up (21:54) - Avoiding the masculine to feel more comfortable (26:47) - Rigidity breeds toxicity (32:35) - Being seen helps others be seen (36:05) - Bisexual stigmatized in the Queer community (41:21) - Challenging our own processes (43:58) - Dominant is not always masculine (45:54) - Controlling sex means controlling identity (50:19) - Power in the feminine (56:25) - Turns out we know about sex (58:21) - How to find Koby Falks on the internet (59:58) - Show closing (01:00:55) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★
Episode Description
In this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes. Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry. Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.
REFERENCES:
Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalks
Follow Koby on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChRpGMrLi-pnJFZCdP3e1Tg
Follow Koby on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kobyfalksofficial
Follow Koby on Facebook: https://facebook.com/kobyfalksdaddy
Follow Koby on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kobyfalks
Follow Koby on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@kobyfalks
- (00:00) - Opening credits
- (00:37) - Show opening
- (01:32) - Introducing Koby Falks
- (02:43) - The pandemic brings new opportunities
- (07:07) - Instead of external, look at the internal
- (12:13) - Dismissing what we don't understand
- (18:13) - Masculinity isn't bottling up, it's showing up
- (21:54) - Avoiding the masculine to feel more comfortable
- (26:47) - Rigidity breeds toxicity
- (32:35) - Being seen helps others be seen
- (36:05) - Bisexual stigmatized in the Queer community
- (41:21) - Challenging our own processes
- (43:58) - Dominant is not always masculine
- (45:54) - Controlling sex means controlling identity
- (50:19) - Power in the feminine
- (56:25) - Turns out we know about sex
- (58:21) - How to find Koby Falks on the internet
- (59:58) - Show closing
- (01:00:55) - Closing credits
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