Summit Series 11: Shiny Unsal - One Simple Formula to Revolutionize All Your Relationships

About Shiny Unsal: Shiny Burcu Unsal is the Global Award-Winning Creator of Neuro-Shine Technology™, a 40 Under 40 Most Influential Award Recipient, a Licensed Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming®, one of the only 530 ICF Master Certified Coaches in US, an ICF Accredited Professional Coach Trainer and a seasoned Communication & Leadership Expert. She's committed to helping people combine the power of their mind with the wisdom of their heart to maximize their true potential and make their difference in the world.She is the Founder of the Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology™, the Author of “YOU ARE A STAR! SHINE!” and a top-rated Professor at UCLA Extension, teaching Leadership Communication Strategies and Emotional Intelligence, since 2012.Her message to the world is: "Success begins in your mind and lives in your heart."In this episode, Chabidaye and Shiny discuss:Your brain’s automated processFrom victimhood to empowermentHow to avoid acting on your default programmingMental blocks that you have to overcomeKey Takeaways:Learn how your brain works so that you can process information more effectively and grow faster and further. Examine your belief system and don’t make assumptions of other people’s beliefs.A mindset of victimhood will get you nowhere. You will have the tendency to blame others, to feel shame, to engage in self-pity and other negative habits. Take charge of your life, and move from a mindset of victimhood to a mindset of responsibility and empowerment.If you do not set goals or have intentional habits that point you in the direction that you want, your brain will decide based on its default programming which is mere survival.Don’t invalidate other people’s ideas or beliefs. They are not wrong, they just have a different perspective. Be open to understanding where other people are coming from, and don’t be too quick to judge and dismiss."If you are not intentional about this automatic programming in your brain, your brain is going to go ahead and make very heavy, messy, and hurtful meanings - we're going to stay in that victim mentality because it's the default setting." —  Shiny Unsal Connect with Shiny Unsal: Website: https://www.shinyunsal.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShinyBurcuUnsalTwitter: https://twitter.com/ShinyBurcuUnsalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shinyburcuunsal/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shinyunsal/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/shinyunsalCONNECT WITH CHABIDAYE:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chabidaye.ramnath.3Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chabidaye/Website: https://leadandlift.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chabidayejaglalramnath/  Show notes by Podcastologist: Justine Talla Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions.  You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  CONNECT WITH CHABIDAYE:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chabidaye.ramnath.3Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chabidaye/Website: https://leadandlift.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chabidayejaglalramnath/  Show notes by Podcastologist: Justine Talla Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.