Super Shadows | When Strengths Limit Growth

In this episode, I’m joined by my co-host Carly Malatskey, a former software engineer turned entrepreneur and host of She Leads. We tackle a listener’s career dilemma: feeling stuck and unsure how to adapt to shifting expectations. Using a structured approach, we break down when to make a change, how to advocate for yourself, and how to evolve without losing what makes you successful. Whether you’re navigating subtle shifts or considering a big move, this episode helps you own your superpower—and the shadow that comes with it.–Key topicsThe unseen influence of Super ShadowsWhy past success won’t fuel future growthBreaking free from career stagnationThe power of self-advocacyHow top leaders seek feedbackIdentifying what actually needs to changeMuch more–Where to find Carly:LinkedInShe Leads PodcastTwitter/X–Where to find Nikhyl:Twitter/XLinkedIn–Find The Skip:WebsiteSubstackYouTubeSpotifyApple Podcasts–Don't forget to subscribe to The Skip to hear me coach you through timely career lessons. If you’re interested in joining me on a future call, send me a note on LinkedIn, Threads, or Twitter. You can also email me at [email protected]–Timestamps(00:00) How your superpower can stall career growth(01:11) Show format(02:45) Listener question: Navigating a quiet career crisis(06:40) How to break free from feeling stuck at work(11:35) The case for self-advocacy in your career(16:36) Why past success won’t fuel future growth(19:48) Super Shadows: What they are and why they matter(30:46) When it’s time to confront your shadow(37:53) The risks of ignoring your shadow(40:56) How great leaders seek feedback(47:07) Pinpointing what actually needs to change(55:57) A strategy for sustainable career growth(57:04) Why change has to happen on the job(58:19) A real-world example from Nikhyl’s offsite(61:28) Key takeaways and final thoughts This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theskip.substack.com