Super Traits & Toxic Love: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Stuck | Sexuality

Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally. This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions. In This Episode • What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:  The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me!  30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesThe 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me! Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com Podcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcast  Website:https://pleaseme.online  Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com  Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast