Support vs Accountability

When did we get to the point in life where if you critique someone or something it's considered hate? If you support someone does that mean you can't hold them accountable? My daughter is showing a lack of interest in basketball so now I'm faced with trying to be her support system but also wanting to hold her accountable for getting better on the court. This has been an interesting week in sports with Shannon Sharpe facing backlash for his critique of Lamar Jackson and trying to hold him accountable.