Synod Stories 11: Gen Z Lutheran on Dating Crisis & Church Revival

Ray Sexton is only 20 years old, but he sees the crisis clearly: his generation is struggling to date, marry, and form faithful Lutheran families. In this frank conversation, Ray shares his journey as a lifelong LCMS member in Springfield, Missouri, his plans for seminary, and why he believes the Lutheran Church needs a complete renovation.We discuss the cultural forces making Christian relationships nearly impossible, why three out of four confirmed Lutheran teens leave the church, and what it means to be a confessional Lutheran in a generation drowning in hookup culture and political extremes. Ray doesn't pull punches—he talks about ultra-conservative rabbit holes, the myth of congregational autonomy, and why the LCMS needs to stop hiding in its "little box."This episode offers a rare window into what young, thoughtful Lutherans are actually experiencing and thinking. Whether you're a parent, pastor, or just curious about the next generation of the LCMS, Ray's perspective will challenge and inform your understanding of where the church is heading.