Taking back your PEN

We love blaming our past for why we are the way we are, as if our childhood came with a non-refundable lifetime warranty. At some point, that explanation stops being a reason and starts being an excuse we're just too lazy to retire. Let's talk about the moment you realize nobody is coming to fix the mess handed to you, and why waiting for an apology from the people who broke you is basically a waste of good oxygen.