Talk about your own flaws

Spirit said the way you talk about your own flaws makes them so mad 😠 why because it changes the trajectory of what they're trying to throw out there about you so basically so many of y'all of course hear rumors people gossip about you but where other people come talk to you you bring up your flaws you talk about your own self shortcomings and the way you express it makes them look so dumb they're like well they was gassing this such an such admitted x yz such such made light out of their situation