Talks 277 - Dr. Jim Rentz, Sr., Vietnam War Chaplain & Family Therapist

The growing network of Spaniard contacts led to Dr. Jim Rentz, Sr., a retired marriage & family therapist inspired to help work toward peace after serving as a U.S. Army Chaplain during the Vietnam War. Perhaps destiny led here as well, since Jim is a stroke survivor, because this talk happened 9 years to the day after Spanny's own stroke. Jim discusses the turmoil that led him and his wife to adopt a Vietnamese orphan … surviving bitterness as a scorned veteran … appreciating the resilience of his father after tuberculosis … and more.   For more w/ The Spaniard:   Subscribe to The Spaniard Show's email list: https://charliespaniard.com/email Support The Spaniard Show - https://patreon.com/charliespaniard Website/Bookings/Reading List: https://charliespaniard.com Book: https://amzn.to/2QPcf1P Facebook: https://facebook.com/charliespaniard Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliespaniard Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliespaniard Youtube: https://youtube.com/user/charliespaniard   Subscribe to The Spaniard Show: iTunes - https://apple.co/2kxob7j Google Play - https://play.google.com/music/listen?u=0#/ps/Irpy2px7edqbwiwpil2ab2jq4me Stitcher - https://bit.ly/2qUBRPb OR search "Spaniard Show" on any podcast app                 MDiv MTheology D Min Bronze Star   military service, faith, parenting, counseling, spirituality, Vietnam conflict, adoption     9:20 On serving as the only chaplain in an aid station with many wounded and dying, serving all as best he could 9:55   10:00 On questioning God and the church amid the mayhem of war and promising to work toward peace 10:50   16:15 On finding trauma bubbling to the surface among military veterans who avoid counseling, and trying to help 17:25   19:20 On coming to see the toll on families in Vietnam when visiting orphanages there, and finding ways to provide aid. 21:35   22:35 On coming to care for the Vietnamese people and one girl in particular, who he and his wife adopted. 23:23   27:00 On feeling led to adopt his daughter Kim 27:20   29:53 On the disappointing reception when he returned from war 33:35   36:05 On how helping others and working through his faith has helped him overcome his own anger 37:38   44:25 On telling his father that his example (achieving success after battling tuberculosis) was a priceless gift. 44:47   46:20 On his father's perspective on prayers as already answered 46:33   53:50 On focusing on what you have and not what you don't 54:15