EPISODE · Mar 29, 2025 · 0 MIN
“讨好”关系中无人真正获益
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这本书里讲得很好，在人际关系中，“讨好”他人往往意味着自我牺牲与感受忽视，但这样的行为其实并没有真正的获益者。讨好并非给予对方好处，反而可能给对方带来压力。所谓的讨好，其实就是要求别人对我好。你以为牺牲能换认可，其实对方可能只感到窒息！真正好的关系是什么呢？成全模式。成全模式就是你舒服，我也舒服——不委屈自己讨好别人，也不强迫别人听自己的。
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这本书里讲得很好，在人际关系中，“讨好”他人往往意味着自我牺牲与感受忽视，但这样的行为其实并没有真正的获益者。讨好并非给予对方好处，反而可能给对方带来压力。所谓的讨好，其实就是要求别人对我好。你以为牺牲能换认可，其实对方可能只感到窒息！真正好的关系是什么呢？成全模式。成全模式就是你舒服，我也舒服——不委屈自己讨好别人，也不强迫别人听自己的。
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