Tearing Up the Checklist Type

Be honest , do you have a “type”? Most of us do. Maybe it’s the charming guy, the creative dreamer, or the one who looks great on paper but never shows up when it counts. The problem? Sometimes our “type” isn’t really our match it’s our pattern. In this episode of Just Call Me Viv, I’m wrapping up my dating series with a candid conversation about breaking free from those patterns and tearing up the checklist. Because what if the best relationship for you isn’t the man you’ve always gone for… but the one who shows up differently? I talk about why it’s okay , even necessary , to date outside your “type,” why letting go of familiar cycles opens the door to something better, and the kind of partner I’m looking for at this stage in life: the one who makes me feel safe, cared for, and yes… just a little obsessed with me. If you’ve ever caught yourself saying, “Why do I keep dating the same kind of guy?” , this episode is for you.