Tell Your Wife Why Men Find Women Hot

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe And you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes, the most recent ones are why NOT TO LIE about your sexual past, unconditional love, and most recently: why it's a GOOD THING for your wife to complain about how much sex you want! For more discussion about these topics, join my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Men think it is super obvious why they find their wives hot, but their wives often have literally zero idea what men find attractive about women overall, nevermind what their husband finds attractive about them in particular.  I have many many women in my office who come in believing that their husbands only want to have sex with them because they are a nearby legally approved vagina.  They actually think men like women who have nice hairstyles or trendy shoes or are 100 lbs or some crazy-to-a-man thing like that. Explain to your wife WHAT men like about women and WHAT ABOUT HER IN PARTICULAR is objectively attractive and desirable to MANY MEN INCLUDING YOU.  Listen for more if you think something like, "Why would I mention other dudes would be into her, that's obvious and makes me look weak and anxious" or "There's no way to tell her stuff like that without her thinking it's disgusting" or "The only things I can think of are attributes she doesn't have" or "Well she doesn't find me attractive so this whole conversation makes me look stupid." This podcast exists to counter dumbass self-talk that sabotages your marriage!