TGOG 2024; 6-9; TEXT 16; SEC V #1; THE CHOICE FOR COMPLETION

What makes us complete? Are we complete within ourself or do we need another to "complete" us? The Special Love Relationship is a coverup for the Special Hate Relationship. Neither are real Love, and both are in the conflicts of guilt, fear, and anger. We wish to triumph over God, and God is simply the absence of conflict and the return of Joy. Do we really want to be happy, or do we want to be "right" and maintain our conflicts? We want to have our needs met by our partner, whom we try to dominate. This kind of completion is one of separation and specialness, whereas the Real Completion, like the Real Love, has no specialness. We are complete and Whole within ourselves, and in this Completion we have not projected "needs." All of our real Needs are met by our Creator. There is nothing to "get" from our partner, and only something we have from our Creation to Give. This is the real Choice for Completion.