The #1 Marriage Secret No One Talks About (But Should) with Steven and Marianne Kalas

In this transformative episode of The Weaponized Marriage Podcast, hosts Dr. Ryan and Kendra Hewitt welcome two of their most influential mentors—marriage therapists Steven and Marianne Kalas. Known for their unconventional and deeply effective approach, the Kalas` duo shares profound insights on marriage as an institution, personal growth within relationships, and how couples can truly thrive. Listeners will learn: • Why marriage is a “people-growing machine” and how embracing this truth can transform relationships. • The importance of becoming the resident expert on your spouse’s patterns, traumas, and triggers. • How modern couples misunderstand marriage and the pitfalls that lead to stagnation. • The power of the Enneagram in marriage, how personality types shape dynamics, and why understanding your spouse’s type can deepen connection. • The #1 mistake that leads to disconnection and how to overcome it. Steven and Marianne introduce their upcoming Only for the Brave marriage workshop, a powerful, immersive experience designed to help couples rekindle passion, strengthen intimacy, and build an unshakable foundation. If you’re ready to invest in your marriage and take it to the next level, don’t wait—sign up for their workshop today. Find all the details and register HERE. “The biggest mistake modern couples make is assuming that love should happen naturally—indifference is what happens naturally.” – Steven Kalas Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links: Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices