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EPISODE · Feb 5, 2026 · 17 MIN

The 3 Container Rule for High-Performing Women

from Earn Your Happy · host Lori Harder | YAP Media

Do you only feel okay when everything in your life is going okay? In this episode, I share a leadership lesson that completely changed how I handle stress, business challenges, relationships, and unexpected fires. I break down the simple 3 container framework that helps you decide what actually deserves your attention, what needs time, and what isn’t yours to carry at all. This shift will help you protect your peace, strengthen your leadership, and stop reacting emotionally to everything happening around you. Tune in to learn how to stay grounded, powerful, and clear. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at workinggenius.com. Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS A gut-check on whether your moods are dependent on your circumstances. The boundary rule about other people’s drama that most women never learn. The 3 container decision filter used by the world’s most successful leaders. How reacting to every fire makes you someone people are afraid to refer. Why you have to care less about a lot in order to care a lot about a little. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

Do you only feel okay when everything in your life is going okay? In this episode, I share a leadership lesson that completely changed how I handle stress, business challenges, relationships, and unexpected fires. I break down the simple 3 container framework that helps you decide what actually deserves your attention, what needs time, and what isn’t yours to carry at all. This shift will help you protect your peace, strengthen your leadership, and stop reacting emotionally to everything happening around you. Tune in to learn how to stay grounded, powerful, and clear. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at workinggenius.com. Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS A gut-check on whether your moods are dependent on your circumstances. The boundary rule about other people’s drama that most women never learn. The 3 container decision filter used by the world’s most successful leaders. How reacting to every fire makes you someone people are afraid to refer. Why you have to care less about a lot in order to care a lot about a little. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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