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EPISODE · Aug 9, 2026 · 14 MIN

The 3-Step Framework to Own Your Story and Change Your Life #701

from Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart · host Lachlan Stuart

Message me your 'Takeaways'.You cannot become the man you want to be until you own the man you've become.Four years ago a bloke came to me doing FIFO work, seven on, seven off. His marriage was falling apart. He was blaming his roster, his wife, his circumstances. Everything except himself.In this episode I walk through the exact 3-step framework we used to turn that around, and why owning your story is the only thing that actually changes it.You'll learn:- The difference between a victim mindset and a creator mindset (and which one you're living in)- Step 1: Own what happened — the two questions that force honest self-reflection- Why "that happened to me" and "that happened for me" lead to completely different lives- Step 2: Control the narrative — the two brothers story that says everything- Why you can't control your first thought, but you can control your second- Step 3: Write the next chapter — who are you becoming from here?- The one choice to make this week to prove itI also share the story of a client who was headed for divorce, how we rebuilt his story from the ground up, and where he is four years later.Start this Free Life Performance Scorecard (under 4 minutes) → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/Ready to own your story and lock in the life you want? Apply to join the Locked-In Life group cohort → https://wkf.ms/4foUmo1Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HEREFollow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

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Message me your 'Takeaways'. You cannot become the man you want to be until you own the man you've become. Four years ago a bloke came to me doing FIFO work, seven on, seven off. His marriage was falling apart. He was blaming his roster, his wife, his circumstances. Everything except himself. In this episode I walk through the exact 3-step framework we used to turn that around, and why owning your story is the only thing that actually changes it. You'll learn: - The difference between a vi...

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