EPISODE · Feb 9, 2026 · 22 MIN
The 4 Dating Mistakes Keeping Smart Women Stuck (And How to Break Them)
from The Tamsen Show · host Tamsen Fadal
Tamsen Fadal sits down and teaches you what she’s learned about dating, from running a matchmaking business in New York City, to dating through her 20s and 30s, to divorce, and starting over in midlife. In this episode, she walks you through the 4 biggest dating mistakes women make. The ones that keep smart, self-aware women repeating the same patterns, settling, or wondering why they keep dating the wrong men. This is about understanding why these mistakes happen and walking away with tools to stop repeating them. You’ll learn: - Why dating for validation feels tempting and how to shift toward real connection - How timelines and panic dating push you to ignore red flags - Why dating someone’s potential keeps you stuck and what to look for instead - How women slowly disappear in relationships and how to stay fully yourself By the end of this episode you’ll see dating with more clarity, more self-trust, and more emotional safety. You’ll have a clearer sense of what’s been holding you back and how to start choosing relationships that actually support who you are. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Join The Tam Fam on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Sponsored by: Audible.com Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What this episode covers
Tamsen Fadal sits down and teaches you what she’s learned about dating, from running a matchmaking business in New York City, to dating through her 20s and 30s, to divorce, and starting over in midlife. In this episode, she walks you through the 4 biggest dating mistakes women make. The ones that keep smart, self-aware women repeating the same patterns, settling, or wondering why they keep dating the wrong men. This is about understanding why these mistakes happen and walking away with tools to stop repeating them. You’ll learn: - Why dating for validation feels tempting and how to shift toward real connection - How timelines and panic dating push you to ignore red flags - Why dating someone’s potential keeps you stuck and what to look for instead - How women slowly disappear in relationships and how to stay fully yourself By the end of this episode you’ll see dating with more clarity, more self-trust, and more emotional safety. You’ll have a clearer sense of what’s been holding you back and how to start choosing relationships that actually support who you are. Watch full video episodes HERE Get Tamsen’s new book, How To Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life and Feel Even Better Than Before Join The Tam Fam on Instagram Follow Tamsen on Instagram Follow Tamsen on TikTok Sponsored by: Audible.com Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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