The 80% of Divorce No One Warns You About: A Divorce Coach Explains with Christin Becker

If you're in the thick of divorce, you already know the hardest part isn't the paperwork. It's the 2am spiral, the text that hijacks your whole day, the quiet question of whether you'll ever feel like yourself again. In this episode of Divorce Discussions, Angie Weber sits down with Christin Becker, a certified divorce coach and Divorce Support Collective member who walked away from a 27-year marriage and came out the other side thriving. Christin's signature framework is simple and a little startling: divorce is 80% emotional, 10% legal, and 10% financial. If you aren't tending to that 80%, she explains, you'll end up making expensive, emotionally charged legal and financial decisions you can't take back. She breaks down what a divorce coach actually does (and how it's different from a therapist), a simple circles exercise for letting go of what you can't control, and her go-to communication rule for high conflict co-parenting: keep it concise, informative, and civil. She also gets honest about the part nobody promises you, that there's a real, joyful life waiting on the other side. From DoorDashing during lonely dinner hours to sending her daughters to Maui, Christin shows what rebuilding actually looks like. Follow the show, leave a review, and visit thedivorcesupportcollective.com for resources and support. Connect with Christin Becker: www.divorcerecoverycoach.com  DSC Profile: https://www.thedivorcesupportcollective.com/christin-becker Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/christindivorcecoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christindivorcecoaching/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christin.becker1