The Ache: I keep telling myself it’ll just happen when I least expect it, but I don’t know if I believe that anymore

You have been told it will just happen when it happens. And for a while, you believed it. You went on the dates, you did the work, you read the books, you know your attachment style inside out. And yet here you are, still getting anxious with the ones who like you, still getting bored with the ones who are actually good for you, still watching everyone around you pair off while quietly wondering what is wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you. But something is being missed in the advice you are being given, and this episode is about what that is. You will leave this episode understanding why waiting for it to just happen is not comforting, it is quietly disempowering, and why that narrative can cost you years. You will understand what is actually happening in your body when you sabotage something good, and why no amount of understanding it intellectually will change the pattern on its own. And you will hear, from someone who has been exactly where you are, what the real work looks like and why it is so much bigger and more life-changing than just finding a partner. This is the episode to listen to if you are tired of knowing better and still doing the same thing. → Come say hi on Instagram: @lucy__maeveTrust in Love