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EPISODE · Oct 30, 2025 · 59 MIN

The Afterparty of Desire: Who Are We When the Performance Ends? EP 709

from Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST · host Stephen V.Rodriguez

The “comedown” from sexual or emotional performance — when you’re lying next to someone after sex and the roles drop. What it’s like to be seen without the persona you used to seduce someone. The post-sex vulnerability hangover — do we crave closeness or distance? Why authentic intimacy can feel scarier than the sexual performance itself. Hot Topic: Brent Corrigan reveals the medical emergency that kept him off the internet for 3 years Hot Topic: King Charles reveals memorial to gay military veterans Hot Topic: Homophobic is you're against Bad Bunny performing at the Super Bowl... Hot Topic: What's a slutty 'chat' bottom? Advice: Breaking down over work stress and family was unsupportive... Advice: Two young friends hookup and have a situationship but now one has a boyfriend... Follow Teddy on IG: @teddyalexis Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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The “comedown” from sexual or emotional performance — when you’re lying next to someone after sex and the roles drop. What it’s like to be seen without the persona you used to seduce someone. The post-sex vulnerability hangover — do we crave...

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