The Art and Power of Reaching Out with Carly Valancy

What would happen if you reached out to one person every day for 100 days? What if reaching out was a part of your daily practice, just like meditation or hitting the gym? And WHAT IF doors you couldn't even imagine opening flung open for you, all from ONE reach out?Carly Valancy, the QUEEN of reaching out, and is on today's ep to share all about the art of this powerful, life-changing practice.We get into:How technically we could be classified as competitors, but consider each other Power Rangers: part of the same squad, focused on similar missions, and going about it different waysWhy "if they wanted to, they would" is a phrase that needs to go in the trashcan ASAPThe real difference between pitching, reaching out, and clout chasing... and how to tell which one you're doingTreating your scariest asks like experiments Rejection as data, not a verdict... and how Carly turned a "no" from a bestselling author into a "yes" just by getting clearer (SO inspired by this story!)What happens if everyone says yes and you don't know what to do with yourself?Why "out of your league" is a story you're telling yourself, and how pedestalizing people actually dehumanizes themCollaboration > competitionIf you've been overthinking your website, your follower count, or your "readiness" before reaching out to someone, this episode is an invitation to stop preparing and just hit send. Life is about who you know, after all.Connect with Carly:Reach Out PartyWebsiteSubstackInstagramLinkedInTether ToolConnect with Chelsea:🌊 Enroll in Audacity - earlybird pricing ends Thurs, Sept 17th!🪄 Ultimate Pitch Kit waitlist ☄️ SUPERNOVA waitlist: the thinking lab for the deep thinkers, world-builders, and curious visionaries who see futures that don't exist yet. 💻 Website📜 Footnotes newsletter filled with rabbit holes, zeitgeist synthesis and more💌 The Art of the Ask Podcast📱 IG: ⁠@chelseariffe⁠🧵 Threads: @chelseariffeSupport NFNTW: Your donations help cover costs of running the show; you can help fund NFTNW right HERE. If you're unable to donate financially, share it. It all adds up!Want to sponsor NFTNW? Email [email protected] to discuss partnership packages!