The Art of Being Present: Kara Stoltenberg’s Guide to Listening and Navigating Tough Emotions Pt 1

🎙️ Welcome to Healthy Happy Wise Wealthy (HHWW)! In this powerful and heartfelt episode, host Mary Meyer sits down with Kara Stoltenberg, coach, healer, and host of “Stepping in with Kara” podcast, to explore the essential skill of holding space and the art of active listening. Kara shares her inspiring story of recovery from a traumatic accident, offering wisdom from over twenty years’ experience helping others process emotion, build resilience, and live a more present, integrated life. Together, Mary and Kara break down why listening—both to ourselves and to others—is vital for our physical, emotional, and spiritual health, and how embracing all our emotions can be truly transformative.🌟 Topics Covered:Kara’s journey after a life-altering bicycle accidentThe concept of “holding space” and why it mattersHow to process emotions in healthy ways (anger, sadness, grief, etc.)The link between physical, emotional, and spiritual healthManaging boundaries as a friend/supporter versus a professionalRecognizing survival strategies: fight, flight, freeze, and fawnBuilding self-listening and body awarenessThe importance of professional support in healingShame, trauma, and compassion on the healing journeyKey Takeaways:Holding space is about listening deeply—without judgment or the urge to fix—so that others can process and heal.Our ability to sit with our own feelings directly impacts how well we can support others.All emotions are valid and carry important information—when we “digest” them rather than suppress them, we grow healthier.Healthy boundaries are vital: you can care for others while honoring your own limits and need for support.Healing from trauma and grief is possible when approached with patience, safety, and the right support network.Some Questions I Asked:“What does it mean to truly hold space for someone?”“How can someone become more comfortable with difficult emotions in themselves?”“What are some practical ways to listen to your body and recognize what you need in hard times?”“How do boundaries play a role in holding space, whether as a friend or a professional?”“What support systems do you recommend to someone starting their own healing process?”Learn More About Our Guest, Kara Stoltenberg:Instagram: @karastoltenberg FacebookPodcast: Stepping in with KaraWebsite: KaraStoltenberg.comRESOURCES & FURTHER LEARNING:Stepping in with Kara PodcastMentioned in discussion: concepts of “fight/flight/freeze/fawn” in trauma workFor professional help: therapists, somatic practitioners, trauma recovery resourcesEmotional Processing: “Feelings Buried Alive Never Die” by Karol Truman (book suggestion for further reading on emotions and health)Additional wellness support: look for local trauma-informed counselors or support groupsWe are excited to have IT company https://www.mindiii.com as a podcast sponsor. Founded in 2015, MINDIII is a Product Development and Data + AI Company that builds scalable digital products and intelligent data platforms. They help businesses design, engineer, and launch high-impact web and mobile applications, powered by modern data engineering, analytics, and AI solutions.Specialities:Product Strategy & Full-Stack DevelopmentAI-Powered Web & Mobile Apps Data Engineering & AnalyticsAI & ML SolutionsCloud & DevOps SolutionsIT Consulting & Dedicated TeamsUI/UX & Workflow AutomationSoftware Testing, Maintenance & SupportEmail - [email protected] or [email protected] to request a quote for software services listed above.Connect with Healthy Happy Wise Wealthy Podcast:🌟 Connect on @Instagram, @Facebook, @TikTok and @LInkedIn @HealthyHappyWiseWealthyhttps://www.youtube.com/@HealthyHappyWiseWealthyNetworkListen on @Spotify, @Audible, @Applepodcasts, @iHeartRadio, @Pandora and moreKnow someone who should be a guest? Email [email protected] Meyer is a podcast host, actor, sales professional, mother and entrepreneur helping people and organizations share meaningful conversations that support health, wisdom, clarity, and growth.Produced by the Insightful Erika Christie Support our work by donating through Venmo: https://www.venmo.com/u/HealthyHappyWiseWealthy. Donations are not tax deductible.  #HealthyHappyWiseWealthy #MentalHealth #HoldingSpace #EmotionalWellness #TraumaHealing #ActiveListening #PersonalGrowth #KaraStoltenberg