The Art of Holding Out: Why Do We Weaponize Sex? (BTWJ 01-23-20)

You mad? Does that mean I can’t get none? The most notable place sex has been weaponized is in an interrelationship argument. When someone is mad (usually women) one place that tends to get used against the other side is the act of holding out. In theory, a punishment to get a desired behavior but who is really being punished if you have great sessions all the time? In another sense, sex can be weaponized to manipulate behavior usually for “selfish” reasons. People who use sex like this have needs t or goals hat need to be met and if sex can help achieve those goals then it’s definelty coming out the tool bag. The emotion that is attached to the act and the intent of sex can be enough to motivate a person to act in irrational and in some cases even dangerous. We explore all this and more on this week's episode of Bar Talk with Jay! Thanks for listening!