The bald truth

Who cares most about my expanding bald patch? Me. Nobody else gives a shit. Except it’s kinda news to me. Some recent video footage really tells it like it is! When else do I see the back of my own head? Video shows us as we truly are, not as we imagine ourselves. One of my jobs is helping people get comfortable with how they show up on camera. It's tricky territory, and most people find this confronting to the point they'll often choose total avoidance. Nearly everyone has a complex about some aspect of their appearance. But that thing you’re self-conscious about? There’s a good chance everyone else has either a) not noticed, or b) accepted it without judgement. They’re too worried about their own shit to care about yours. YES I REALISE I AM IN DANGEROUS TERRITORY HERE. PLEASE ACCEPT THIS HUGE CAVEAT FOR PATRIARCHY AND MISOGYNY BIAS, ABLEISM AND PRIVILEGE AND ALL OF THE THINGS. Those factors are real and true and I’m not here to judge your experience. These barriers can be hard to overcome. But Col and I both work with people who are the face of their business. And typically, the more comfortable you are with yourself, the more successful you’ll be. Your hair, face, weight, voice, teeth, mannerisms - ALL OF IT - is already what people see every day. Show up anyway. It’s better for your business and your soul.