The Best Possible Outcome

Someone who internalizes the principles of emunah and lives his life accordingly will find so much of the worry and stress that plagues people slowly dissipating. He knows every moment of his life is so carefully planned by Hashem. He knows whatever is meant for him to have he will get. He knows no one can take anything from him or harm him if it's not the will of Hashem. And he knows everything Hashem decides for him is always the best possible outcome that could happen. A woman who has been working on her emunah for the past couple of years told me how much strength it has given her. She said, "Very often we find ourselves in situations which are shared by many people and we feel like we are part of a global crisis. We tend to succumb to the situation by reasoning that we are just a victim of the crisis, whether it be a shidduch crisis or a housing crisis or a getting accepted into yeshiva crisis and so on. We need to remember that each and every person is an only child to Hashem, who has a different plan for every single person." Recently, she started falling prey to that conventional thinking as her family became one of the thousands in the housing crisis, unable to find a decent living quarters for an affordable price. They prayed and hoped to find a suitable place to live in that they could afford, despite real estate agents telling them that they were being very unrealistic. Baruch Hashem, they are blessed with a large family and live in a highly sought after neighborhood for a number of years. One day, their landlord said he needed them to vacate as soon as they could because he wanted the apartment for his own family. Moving to another neighborhood was not an option, due to family obligations and work considerations. Then, one Monday morning, she saw an ad for an apartment that sounded just right. After speaking to the owner, her optimism increased. The location, the size, and the price were just what they were looking for. Her and her husband's schedules were completely booked for the next few days and so she figured she would call back to schedule a viewing later in the week, but the next day the ad was gone and she had misplaced the phone number of the landlord. It appeared that someone else beat them to that apartment. They consoled themselves with the thoughts that no one could ever take something from them if they were destined to have it and, if they didn't get it, it was for sure for their best. For the next two months, they were unable to find anything suitable. Then, one day, she received a call from a friend who said someone in a class she goes to mentioned that she has an apartment that she is looking to rent out. The description sounded exactly what they were looking for and the address rang a bell. She took the phone number and set up a meeting to see it. The apartment was perfect and they agreed to take it on the spot. After signing the lease, they couldn't help but ask the owner if this was in fact the same apartment that was advertised in the local paper a couple of months before this. The owner said indeed it was. People came to see it then but were turned off by the condition of the apartment. He decided to remove the ad and do renovations before showing it again. Just as they were completing the renovations, his wife told her close friends only about it because they wanted people with close references. And that is how they got this apartment. The woman said, "We thought that the perfect apartment slipped out of our hands. Little did we know, Hashem was not only holding it for us, He was fixing it up and making it ready for us to move into without us having to do anything." The struggles of life can get stressful, but the more emunah a person acquires, the better he will be able to perform as he goes through them.