The Biggest Marriage Mistakes Newlyweds Make (And How to Avoid Them) with Mike Novotny

What makes the first years of marriage so challenging—and how can couples build a strong foundation that lasts? In this episode of inContext, Michael Easley sits down with pastor and author Mike Novotny to discuss his book Newlywed. Together, they unpack the biggest challenges young couples face, from unmet expectations and communication breakdowns to intimacy, finances, in-laws, and the influence of social media. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and personal experience, they offer practical, biblical wisdom for building a Christ-centered marriage. Whether you're engaged, newly married, celebrating decades together, or mentoring younger couples, this conversation will encourage you to pursue humility, honest communication, and a deeper dependence on God in your marriage. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and why newlyweds need biblical guidance 02:20 – The biggest mistakes couples make in year one 04:00 – Unspoken expectations and why they create conflict 08:30 – Home life, chores, and different family backgrounds 09:30 – Healthy conversations about intimacy and expectations 15:20 – Communication that strengthens marriage 18:45 – The Ten Commandments of Communication 20:45 – Listening instead of trying to fix every problem 24:45 – Growing spiritually together through church and prayer 29:50 – Navigating relationships with in-laws 34:15 – Social media, comparison, and contentment in marriage 37:40 – Why authentic Christian community matters 40:50 – God's design for lifelong marriage 42:30 – Encouragement for couples in every season In This Episode Why unmet expectations cause so many marriage conflicts Practical communication habits every couple should practice Biblical wisdom for navigating intimacy How family backgrounds shape marriage Healthy boundaries with parents and in-laws The dangers of comparing your marriage to social media The importance of prayer, church, and Christian community How God strengthens marriages through every season Links Mentioned: Newlywed by Mike Novotony Time of Grace Watch the highlights and full version of this interview on our Youtube channel. For more inContext interviews, click here.