The Blueprint of Who We Are: Attachment Styles & The Raw Truth of Healing

Send us Fan Mail2023 was a controlled demolition of my false identity. But entering 2024? That’s where the real test began. In this episode of Be Clay, we are diving headfirst into the raw, uncut truth of the healing journey.It all started when I fell down a rabbit hole after hearing about the B. Simone and Megan Ashley “Know For Sure” breakup. What began as looking into a viral internet situation turned into a life-changing introduction to attachment theory—and that’s exactly where the tears hit. I’m getting completely honest about the fear, the pushback, the moments I doubted God’s voice, and the kind of healing that refuses to let you stay comfortable.We’re unpacking how these emotional blueprints dictate how we show up in our relationships—whether you find yourself in the anxious, avoidant, or disorganized camp. But the deepest layer we explore here is faith. I’m connecting our attachment wounds to how we approach God, how we pray, and why receiving love can feel completely impossible even when we say we believe it.If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” feared being left, or pulled away the moment someone gets close, this episode will put language to your pain and point you toward a healthier path.Hit subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review letting me know which attachment pattern you relate to most.Note: This is Part 1 of a massive, deeply personal conversation. Make sure to stay tuned for Part 2 dropping right after this!You are Loved!Not just a little, but greatlyNot just today, but foreverNot just by some,But by the ONE who created you in His LoveAnd HE's Not The ONLY OneWe Love You Unconditionally                      &There's nothing you can do to change it!!!!Listen and Subscribe on Youtubehttps://youtube.com/@beclaypod?si=qY0dYDYXxviLM-l6Follow Me on Instagram@beclaypodFollow I Spy You Buy for the best Philly Thrift Experience!! @ispyyoubuy