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EPISODE · Aug 2, 2026 · 12 MIN

The Calendar Lock: How Ambitious Couples Plan Their Week #700

from Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart · host Lachlan Stuart

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Over the weekend I was called selfish and told my marriage would end in divorce.All because I went on a 3-hour run.My wife knew. She supported it. Because we have a system that most couples don't, and in this episode I'm sharing exactly what it is.It's called the Calendar Lock. One conversation, two calendars, three locks. And it's how Amy and I make sure we both chase big goals, invest in our marriage, and show up for our family, without anyone feeling like they're losing out.You'll learn:- Why "equal time" is the wrong goal — and what "agreed time" actually means- The one 20-minute conversation that plans our entire week- How to use two calendars to find time for personal goals, your marriage, and family- The 3 locks: personal time, spousal time, family time — and how to protect all three- Why one of you needs to lead while the other supports (and how to switch)- How Amy and I handle seasons where one person's goals take priority- Why you can't wait for perfect conditions to chase what mattersI also share what happened when I posted about my long run on the internet, and why the people who called me selfish didn't understand what Amy and I had already agreed on.Ready to lock in your week and stop choosing between your goals and your marriage? Apply to join the Locked-In Life group cohort → https://wkf.ms/4foUmo1Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HEREFollow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

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Message me your 'Takeaways'. Over the weekend I was called selfish and told my marriage would end in divorce. All because I went on a 3-hour run. My wife knew. She supported it. Because we have a system that most couples don't, and in this episode I'm sharing exactly what it is. It's called the Calendar Lock. One conversation, two calendars, three locks. And it's how Amy and I make sure we both chase big goals, invest in our marriage, and show up for our family, without anyone feeling like...

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