The Comeback with Orlagh Winters

At just 36, eight months married, Orlagh Winters was diagnosed with an aggressive form of breast cancer - with no lump, only pain in her breast. Her story is a powerful reminder to always get checked and trust your instincts when it comes to your health. In this episode, Orlagh opens up about her breast cancer diagnosis, the gruelling rounds of chemotherapy and the side effects that came with it - from hair loss to being put into early menopause, which shattered her dreams of having a family. She also shares the emotional fallout of discovering her husband’s affair while grieving her dad, and how she eventually found strength and self-worth through it all. Now married to the love of her life, Luke O’Hea, Orlagh talks about finding happiness again. She’s also raised thousands for charities and continues to be a voice for awareness, especially during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Orlagh says she lives by one motto that keeps her grounded: “If they’re not in your head, or the heart of your bed - their opinion doesn’t matter.” From coping with grief to finding hope after heartbreak, this is a story about courage, survival, and choosing to live life on your own terms. This episode is proudly sponsored by ADHD Now - the online clinic transforming ADHD assessment and care across Ireland. If you’re seeking an ADHD assessment or support, visit adhdnow.com today. Timestamps 00:00 – Intro & Setting the Scene 01:00 – Early Life & Family 08:23 – Cancer Diagnosis & Chemotherapy Journey 10:24 – Medical Menopause & Infertility 11:46 – Egg Donation & Divorce 12:21 – Family Court & Misogyny in the Irish System 15:44 – Journaling, Fundraising & Finding Purpose 17:54 – Meeting Luke 25:26 – Ghosting, Boundaries & Self-Worth 29:05 – Motherhood, Regret & Reflection 31:08 – Irish Family Courts & Lockdown Impact 33:14 – Cancer Awareness & Getting Checked 35:31 – Life Before & After Cancer 37:00 – The Little Things & Love with Luke 38:28 – The Three Questions Finale 39:33 – Closing & Sign-Off Connect With Me: Instagram: @thecomebackwithbrenda @brendasbits Contact: [email protected]