EPISODE · Jul 8, 2026 · 7 MIN
The Competence Trap
from Decisive Moments by Julio Zelaya · host Julio Zelaya
You were promoted for the exact skills that are sabotaging your marriage.Self-reliance. Emotional control. Carrying the load without being asked.That operating system wins at work. Then you run it at home, and the people who love you start to feel like direct reports.The problem was never that you work too much. It's that you never switch operating systems at the door.This week I break down The OS Switch: the 60-second practice that changes what you walk in the door running.Read the new Decisive Moments on Linkedin: Subscribe on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7345545776187490305Or listen on the Decisive Moments podcast, on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and your favorite platform.Design the moment. Win the outcome.#Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #HighPerformance #Relationships #AILeadership
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You were promoted for the exact skills that are sabotaging your marriage. Self-reliance. Emotional control. Carrying the load without being asked. That operating system wins at work. Then you run it at home, and the people who love you start to feel like direct reports. The problem was never that you work too much. It's that you never switch operating systems at the door. This week I break down The OS Switch: the 60-second practice that changes what you walk in the door running. Read the new ...
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