The complexity of relationships: Can a square peg fit into a round hole?

For some reason, we try to make things work when they shouldn’t. I think we do that because deep down we do not believe: 1) we will get everything we want in a relationship; 2) we confuse the someone else’s (“SOEs”) with our one; 3) we want to seek temporary comfort in a relationship, or; 4) we do not believe our person is out there. If any of these limiting beliefs show up, you need to stop dating until you change your perspective. You are entering the dating danger zone if you proceed with these beliefs.