The Cost of Being the One Everyone Depends On with Carol Enneking

DescriptionLeadership is often measured by the decisions we make.But what if the hardest part isn't making the decision?What if it's living with it afterward?In this episode of Deals with Heels, Debra Bowers sits down with leadership advocate, speaker, and author Carol Enneking to explore the emotional side of leadership that few people talk about.Together they discuss burnout, people-pleasing, redefining success, setting healthy boundaries, difficult personal decisions, and why sustainable leadership requires more than working harder.Drawing from both of their personal journeys—including divorce, caregiving, rebuilding careers, and learning to redefine success—they explore how our personal patterns often become our leadership patterns.Whether you're leading a company, managing a team, or simply trying to build a life that aligns with your values, this conversation is a reminder that leadership isn't just about carrying responsibility—it's about learning what you're no longer willing to carry alone.Key Topics- The emotional weight leaders carry after difficult decisions- Burnout and the hidden cost of high achievement- Why people-pleasing follows us into leadership- Redefining success before it defines you- Creating sustainable leadership habits- The importance of margin and healthy boundaries- Helping employees connect to organizational purpose- Why strategy must connect emotionally—not just intellectually- How personal growth shapes professional leadership- Growth, responsibility, and self-trustResourcesConnect with Carol EnnekingWebsitehttps://carolenneking.comBook: The Rebalancing Act: Wisdom from Working Women for Success That MattersAvailable through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and major booksellers.Leadership resources and speaking information are available on Carol's website.Connect with Debra BowersLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-bowers/Free Resource – 5 Signs Your Growth Is Breakinghttps://5signs.thegrowthvanguard.com/The Human Sales Playbookhttps://thegrowthvanguard.com/free-ebookThe Growth Vanguardhttps://thegrowthvanguard.com/Hexagon Mediahttps://hexagonmedia.net/Stay Connected with Deals with HeelsIf this conversation resonated with you, share it with a leader, founder, or colleague who needs to hear it.Deals with Heels is where we explore the human side of leadership, growth, sales, decision-making, and the moments that shape who we become as leaders.Follow the show so you never miss an episode, and if you're enjoying these conversations, please leave a review. Your reviews help more listeners discover the show and support our ability to bring thoughtful, meaningful conversations to a wider audience.🎙 Follow Deals with Heels on your favorite podcast platform⭐ Leave a review and help us grow📢 Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the conversationUntil next time, stand strong in your power—especially when it gets uncomfortable.