The Cost of the Call: When Choosing Yourself Feels Like Losing Everything

Episode 80: This week, I’m bringing you into something that’s been sitting heavy on my heart. It’s a conversation I’ve touched on before, but never like this. I want to talk about what it really costs to follow your soul calls. Not the pretty version, but the actual lived experience. The kind that feels like your life is unraveling and you’re not sure who you’ll be on the other side.Because here’s the truth. Choosing yourself often comes with loss. Sometimes it means losing your marriage, or the financial stability that came with it. Sometimes it means watching the relationship with your children shift in painful ways. Or realizing the religion, identity, or belief system that shaped your whole world no longer fits. It can look like grief, fear, and uncertainty so big you start to wonder if the cost is just too high.But in this episode, I want to walk with you through that fire. I want to name what it feels like to stand at the edge of everything you once knew, and still decide not to turn back. To stay with yourself even when you don’t know what’s next. I share stories from women in this community, from my own life, and from the quiet courage I’ve seen again and again in those of you choosing something more honest, even when it breaks your heart.This isn’t a step-by-step guide. It’s a sit-down, heart-to-heart. The kind where I look you in the eye and remind you that yes, this is hard. And no, you’re not broken for finding it hard. You’re becoming. You’re remembering who you are. And the two things that will carry you through are trust in yourself and trust in something bigger that is still holding your life, even when you can’t see it.Show Notes:Subscribe to Stay or Go on SubstackSigns: The Secret Language of the Universe - Laura Lynne JacksonThe Surrender Experiment - Michael A. SingerThe Untethered Soul - Michael A. SingerThe Seat of the Soul - Gary ZukavJourney of Souls - Michael NewtonWomen Who Run With the Wolves - Clarissa Pinkola EstesLive Awake Podcast - Sarah BlondinThe Voice of Knowledge - Don Miguel RuizText 90MIN to 33777 to book a 90-Minute Session with me. ✨Text STAYORGOCOMMUNITY to 33777 to join the community. ⚡️Text EMAILME to 33777 for the free tarot guide using ChatGPT. 💫YouTube ChannelThe Deep Dive - 3 Month One-on-One Coaching IntensiveStay or Go CommunityInstagramFacebook This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stayorgo.substack.com/subscribeSupport the showThe Deep Dive - 3 Month One-on-One Coaching IntensiveText 90MIN to 33777 to book a 90-Minute Session with me. ✨Text STAYORGOCOMMUNITY to 33777 to join the community. ⚡️Text EMAILME to 33777 for the free tarot guide using ChatGPT. 💫Stay or Go CommunityInstagramFacebook YouTube ChannelSubscribe to Stay or Go on Substack