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EPISODE · Jun 26, 2023 · 3 MIN

The Cure for a Stagnant Sexless Marriage

from Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast · host Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore

Are you an unhappy husband just existing in a Sexless Marriage?In this episode I talk about the cause of your unhappiness and what you can do to start making changes today.Here's the article I mentioned in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/fed-up-being-an-unhappy-husband/The fact is the one thing us guys have the MOST control over, but spend the LEAST amount of time working on is this....our mindset.While I know dozens of things you can do tonight that will make small improvements in your relationship, intimacy and sex life - none of them will matter as much as your mindset. Mindset comes first because it's never about what you're DOING in life and love that matters. It's who you are BEING when you do them.I spent way too many years in the body of a man who did things to please others. I did things to keep the peace. I didn't things with the purpose of making people like me. I did things to get along and not rock the boat.I did things to get attention and crumbs of affection and sex.Happy wife - happy wife...and all that mythical crap.It's the wrong mindset. Don't do that.It not only guarantees you will never get what you want - it ends up making you feel horrible about yourself.When you feel horrible about yourself you start resenting those you think are responsible for it.When they lose respect for you...you lose your self-confidence and self-respect.Those are two major components of our happiness and our mojo.Without them, there is really nothing we can do to make our life any happier. We make bad choices and weak decisions...otherwise known as "settling".Don't do that.We stay at jobs we know we should leave. We keep friends in our life who drain us of energy. And we put up with intimate relationships that aren't even close to intimate anymore.Don't do that.What do you do instead?Make the very conscious, proactive and self respecting decision to get a "mojo makeover".What's that mean?It means getting clarity about your real power and purpose. It means reclaiming your confidence and boldness in creating a new reality. It means getting a clear PLAN for taking the steps you need to be someone you're proud of so you can feel HAPPY about your new path.Mojo makeovers are what I do. That's my power and purpose. You can start the process by joining my community of initiated men or just apply for a free consultation call with me, Dan or one of our coaches:https://goodguys2greatmen.com/apply-now/I'll ask you to invest your time, your heart and your trust. I will do the same for you. This conversation will be deep and personal and you will feel like you've been heard and understood maybe for the first time in years.Want more sexless marriage advice for men?https://goodguys2greatmen.com/sexless-marriage-advice-for-men/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't.   They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.   They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly. You can only improve your inside game with other men. We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man. Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

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Are you an unhappy husband just existing in a Sexless Marriage?In this episode I talk about the cause of your unhappiness and what you can do to start making changes today.Here's the article I mentioned in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/fed-up-being-an-unhappy-husband/The fact is the one thing us guys have the MOST control over, but spend the LEAST amount of time working on is this....our mindset.While I know dozens of things you can do tonight that will make small improvements in your relationship, intimacy and sex life - none of them will matter as much as your mindset. Mindset comes first because it's never about what you're DOING in life and love that matters. It's who you are BEING when you do them.I spent way too many years in the body of a man who did things to please others. I did things to keep the peace. I didn't things with the purpose of making people like me. I did things to get along and not rock the boat.I did things to get attention and crumbs of affection and sex.Happy wife - happy wife...and all that mythical crap.It's the wrong mindset. Don't do that.It not only guarantees you will never get what you want - it ends up making you feel horrible about yourself.When you feel horrible about yourself you start resenting those you think are responsible for it.When they lose respect for you...you lose your self-confidence and self-respect.Those are two major components of our happiness and our mojo.Without them, there is really nothing we can do to make our life any happier. We make bad choices and weak decisions...otherwise known as "settling".Don't do that.We stay at jobs we know we should leave. We keep friends in our life who drain us of energy. And we put up with intimate relationships that aren't even close to intimate anymore.Don't do that.What do you do instead?Make the very conscious, proactive and self respecting decision to get a "mojo makeover".What's that mean?It means getting clarity about your real power and purpose. It means reclaiming your confidence and boldness in creating a new reality. It means getting a clear PLAN for taking the steps you need to be someone you're proud of so you can feel HAPPY about your new path.Mojo makeovers are what I do. That's my power and purpose. You can start the process by joining my community of initiated men or just apply for a free consultation call with me, Dan or one of our coaches:https://goodguys2greatmen.com/apply-now/I'll ask you to invest your time, your heart and your trust. I will do the same for you. This conversation will be deep and personal and you will feel like you've been heard and understood maybe for the first time in years.Want more sexless marriage advice for men?https://goodguys2greatmen.com/sexless-marriage-advice-for-men/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you. It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority. Most men don't.   They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.   They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life. <br...

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