The Dance Most Couples Are Doing

Ask Dr. Gina Do you and your partner keep having the same fight, just with different details? It might not be about the dishes, the phone, or being late. It might be the dance. In this episode, Dr. Regina Ransom breaks down one of the most common patterns couples get stuck in: one partner pursues, pushing to talk and fix it now, while the other withdraws, going quiet and pulling away. The harder one chases, the further the other retreats, and both end up feeling alone. You'll learn: How to tell whether you're the pursuer or the withdrawer The fears hiding underneath each role Why the same fight keeps coming back A simple tool to pause the dance and come back to each other The cycle is the enemy, not your partner. Listen together, and talk about which part of the dance feels familiar. Have a question about love or marriage? Send it through Fan Mail and it may be answered on a future episode. Learn more at adeeperus.com. A Deeper Us is for education and encouragement and is not a substitute for counseling. Not sure where your relationship stands? Take the free 3-minute quiz: Are We Stuck, or Starting Over? https://nbfc-couples-quiz.netlify.app/ Ready to reconnect? The 30-Day Reconnection Plan, 15 minutes a day for couples: https://stan.store/newbirthfamilycounseling/p/the-30day-reconnection-plan Want months of progress in days? Learn about private couples intensives with Dr. Ransom at adeeperus.com