The Decline of Modern Dating: Is It Men or Women's Fault?

Dating is getting harder. Is it because of men or because of women? There's a gender war between male and female for how modern dating is failing. What if it isn't either gender and a higher power or technological advances that promoted modern culture to blur the lines between modern and traditional relationships to a point where everyone doesn't know how to have healthy relationships anymore - which is why dating is getting harder or IMPOSSIBLE.