The Difference between being IN LOVE and LOVE

So i dont want people thinking you arent suppose to love you women or anybody because that is far from the case. In fact you should love everyone and everything. But being IN LOVE is a whole different story. Men, we do not fall in love with anyone or anything because falling in love with materials or flesh can be mind altering. Nothing on earth is promised and there is a beginning and end to every story. You will someday have to live without so there is no need to idolize any flesh or materials on earth only the most high. When you fall in love you are putting that woman on the pedestal and worshiping her. Thats not how we love our women fellas!